Sabse Badi Galti
Jo aap kahin roz toh nahi kar rahe?
Is Blog me aaj baat hogi us sabse badi glti ki jo aajkal bahot aam ho gayi hai, log jaane anjaane har waqt ye galti karte, aapko dikh hi jaenge. Aur hairaani ki baat to ye hai ki Log jitne time khana nahi khate ussey jada time to ye galti karte hain.
Logo ke sath jab bhi kuch bura hota hai ya koi kaam nai banta tab wo bina kuch bhi soche samjhe apni kismat ko kosne lagte hain. Unke sath kuch bhi galat ho, wo ya to kismat ko bura bhala kahenge, kismat ko blame karenge, ya to jo koi aur jo us incident me involve hai usey blame karenge. Jo ki aajkal bahot hi svabhaavik aur aam baat ho gayi hai.
Galti yaha log ye karte hain ki jab bhi kuch bura hua ya koi bhi kaam nai bana usko analyse nai karte aur jaanne ki koshish hi nai karte ki aakhir galti kahan hui hai. Aur jyadatar to ye hota hai ki Logo ko pata hota hai ki galti kahan hui hai aur usko sudhara kaise ja sakta hai, par bs kyuki wo blame khud pr nahi lena chahte isliye wo apni galti accept nahi karte.
Pr jara is or dhyan dijiye ki - Jab tak apni galti accept hi nai karoge to uspr kaam kaise karoge? Aur jab tak galti pr kaam nahi karoge to usko sudharoge kaise? Aur agar galti sudharoge nahi to wahi galti bar bar dohraoge. Aur agar bar bar wahi galti karoge to kaam bar bar hi bigdega, bar baar bante kaam nai banenge, bar bar kuch galat hoga. Aur jab bar bar bina baat ke kaam nai bnega to kismat ko hi dos doge, aur fir dhire dhire ye adat me aa jaega aur jaldi fir ye apka belief system me bhi aajaega. Aur aisa belief system bahot khatarnak hai shayad ye aapko abhi bahot choti cheez lage lekin long run me ye bahot nuksan dega.
Apni galti accept karna sikhiye, jab bhi koi kaam na bane uski jimmedari khud le, kismat ko ya kisi aur ko blame karne ke bajae, dekhe kahan kya kami reh gayi, kahan galti hui aur fir agli bar us galti ko kabhi na dohrae.
(Note – Apni galti ki jimmedari le jarur par maayus hoke na bethe, self esteem down na karein, ye na kahein khud se ki mujhse to koi kaam thik se hota hi nai hai. Yad rakhein koi perfect nahi hota. Perfection is an illusion. Bs itna karna hai ki apni galti dohrani nai hai, insan galti karke hi sikhta hai. Pr dhyan dijiye samjhdar insan wo hota hai jo dusro ki galti se sikhle)
To aaj bs itni hi baat krni thi, aage se kabhi bhi kismat ko blame mt kariyega, hum sabki kismat bahot achi hai, agar humko ye zindagi mili hai, ye khubsurat duniya dekhne ke mauka mila hai hume, to hum wakai bahot kismat wale hain. Bs depend hum par karta hai ki hum is zindagi ko aur kitna safal banate hai.
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